She says she’s 18, but you’re a sexual predator and pedophile

In this article you see quite an amazing statement by one of the guys who busts “sexual criminals”…

“These girls are only 13, 14 or 15 saying they are 18. Some of the things they are writing are leaving them open to sexual predators and pedophiles,” said Drass.

Excuse me, but if I have sex with a girl who tells me she’s 18, I may have committed a crime, but I did so unknowingly. Having sex with someone who tells you she is of the age of consent but isn’t doesn’t make you a sexual predator or a pedophile. Sexual predators and pedophiles seek out underage people because they are easy victims.

But it’s strange–these cops are so singly-focused in making big busts that they can hardly tell the difference between a pedophile and someone who has sex with someone underage but never knew the girl’s real age.

Shouldn’t the parents have to take any responsibility if their children are pretending to be older than they are and thus having illegal sex with people? You can only go so far “shielding” your kids from harms before you just have to sit down with them and tell them the reality of life. But most parents are so thick-headed they don’t even want to talk to their children about sex (hell, most parents have never even let their kids see them naked). Is anyone thinking that perhaps the taboo we have on sexuality in this country is what leads kids to have such strange misconceptions, so that eventually there are 14 year olds who think it’s cool to list on their profile, “I like rough sex and I like it 10 times a day.” Why don’t parents just talk to their kids, it’s the only god-damn reason you’re a parent in the first place.

Why do parents think leaving kids on the Internet unattended is any different from letting your kids walk into the public square unattended, or make random telephone calls unattended? The Internet is a way to contact people, and communicate with them; often, people you do not know. An “innocent child” who cannot make judgements for him/herself should simply not be on there without a full armament of knowledge about the reality of the situation.

Meanwhile, the real victim here isn’t the 14 year old who thought it would be cool to have sex and so lied about her age to lose her virginity, but the guy who sincerely thought she was 18 and ends up going to jail for it.

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